Your queer love deserves to feel like freedom.
Brief therapy for queers and LGBTQ+ couples, with a BIPOC queer therapist. Make sense of your feelings, calm the panic, and feel worthy of the intimacy you've always wanted.
About Therapy for Queer Love
Does any of this sound like you?
“What will my family think if they see us holding hands?”
“Does this make me less worthy in the eyes of God?”
“Why does something that feels right still make me feel wrong?”
“I finally came out, but I still feel ashamed, anxious, and guilty.”
“I don't know how to talk about boundaries and desire.”
“Joy, fear, and shame — sometimes all in the same hour.”
If so, you're in the right place.
What I help with
How to get started
Pick a time
Book an appointment online, or text a question first if you're not sure.
Meet in person or online
Come to the San Francisco office, or meet online from anywhere in CA, WA, or FL.
Decide together
We'll talk about what you want and whether this is the right fit — no pressure.
BIPOC LGBTQ+ therapy in San Francisco & Seattle
6-Week Brief Therapy for Queer/Gender Identity Deep Dive
Available for clients who reside in California, Washington, and Florida — or anyone willing to travel to one of the three states to work with Dr. Wonbin.
Queer Couples Therapy
Learn what you want in your relationship, communicate it, and listen in to what your partner wants.
Out-of-network? I don't work directly with insurance, but superbills are available on request for possible reimbursement.
All fees →Hi, I'm Dr. Wonbin (she/her)
I'm a queer Asian therapist with 10 years of experience supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and couples — especially those who are just beginning their queer journey. I offer a space where you won't have to explain or justify your queerness, where we slow down, listen deeply, and begin rewriting the stories that have kept you small.
I'd be honored to partake in your queer relationship journey.