Therapy Topic:

Ethical Non-monogamy & Poly Relationships

You don’t have to know all the answers; you just have to be ready to ask the questions and listen with intent.

I help queer couples explore non-monogamy with curiosity and care.

A modern wooden house surrounded by tall grass, with trees in the background, overlooking a body of water and distant mountains under a soft, overcast sky.
Modern wooden house in a grassy field with mountains in the background.

You’re considering opening up your relationship but fear and uncertainty creep in.

I can help you navigate the fear, jealousy, and uncertainty so that you and your partner can make decisions about your relationship together, grounded in trust.

Two people are walking on a glass floor viewed from below, with their legs visible through the glass.
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One of you wants to open up,

and the other wants to remain closed. 

One of you wants to open up the relationship, and the other wants to remain closed. You feel trapped because no matter what decision you make, you feel that your relationship may not survive.

I help couples discern and gain clarity on their core relationship values and concerns and weigh all the options that are available to them. Whether you open up your relationship or not, there are always ways to honor both of you in the process.

What it’s like to work with me:

Working with me means having a space where nothing about you needs to be hidden, justified, or fixed. I bring a mix of curiosity, directness, and deep care to help you untangle what feels confusing whether that’s identity, relationships, or patterns that keep showing up. I don’t rush clarity, but I do walk with you toward it—with honesty, accountability, and a belief in you and your autonomy.